You may have noticed that your comments no longer get launched immediately, they are held for approval. This is a common practice on blogs. Please know that I don’t only publish the comments that agree with me; I love when you have differing and dissenting opinions and often go back and recant my stance. The moto jacket is a good example. It went on my ‘no-no’ list, but after I got a lot of great arguments in its favor, I changed my position.
But comments that insult me (or other commenters) will no longer be shared. Recently, I was offended by a reader’s cruel personal remarks and I came out swinging. The back and forth was not a chic dialogue, and although another reader weighed in that I should publish all comments, even the ones that “ouch”, I disagree. I refuse to promote unkindness.
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